His one act changed my life completely ... #breakthebias

It was when I was around 14 yrs old all playful free from the out world in my own dream world I asusal went to my tutions where I was taught by a male teacher . And that day when everyone else left he asked me to stay and gave me extra work to do . Just the two of us were there in that room he stood up and locked the door, i looked at him with a confused face as I was not aware of what he was about to do next he came closer to me and sat next to me . Still I wasn't aware what was going on . He held my hands so tight and tried to kiss me on my face at that time I was soo uncomfortable and whenever I think of the same it gives me goosebumps all over my body . I was freezed for a sec I couldn't think of doing anything I was so terrified I don't know how I managed to  push him back , run to open the locked door and escaped from his house ,crying sobbing  all the way back to my home accidentally I met my friend one year older than me she took me to her home and calmed me down gave me a glass of water and asked me what was the mattar ? I burst out in tears and told her everything about what had happened. She told me something that day which changed my life completely it changed my perspective of seeing the world she said " ITS NOT UR FAULT STOP CRYING ITS HIS FAULT AND HE HAS TO PAY FOR IT , believe in your voice, believe in yourself, AND IF SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT WITH YOU STAND UP AND RAISE UR VOICE AGAINST IT .BE INDEPENDENT AND FEARLESS. SHE TOLD ME ABOUT A WOMEN CALLED MALALA YOUSUFZIA  AN ACTIVIST ITS ALL BECAUSE OF HER THAT WOMEN IN HER NATION ARE NOW ALLOWED TO HAVE EDUCATION ITS BECAUSE OF HER BRAVERY THAT WOMEN IN HER NATION ARE NOW ALLOWED TO MAKE DECESIONS FOR THEMSELVES .EVEN SHE WAS SHOT BY A BULLET IN HEAD but  SHE DIDNT STOP THERE AND CONTINUED HER WORK OF BRAVERY TO SPREAD THE RIGHTS OF WOMEN EVERYWHERE JUST BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T WANTED THE WOMEN OF HER NATION TO BE OPPRESSED SHE STOOD UP FOR HERSELF AND ALL THE WOMEN OF HER NATION. now she is my inspiration and I really want to do something for the women of my nation who are opressed and not allowed to do whatever they want my role model once said "  when women say they want independence, people think this means we don’t want to obey our fathers, brothers or husbands. But it does not mean that. It means we want to make decisions for ourselves. We want to be free to go to school or to go to work ".

Malala Yousafzaiu

"All men think earning money and ordering around others is where power lies. They don’t think power is in the hands of the woman who takes care of everyone all day long, and gives birth to their children.”

And one more thing happened few days back when I was traveling alone to my school in a local transport one man came and sat next to me he started touching me on my thighs and I remembered what my frend had said to me "STAND UP AND RAISE UR VOICE AGAINST THE WRONG " and I did exactly the same stood up and shouted on him and told everyone what he was doing , the driver stoped the bus and all the people in the bus started cursing him and he was thrown out of the bus immediately . I am soo proud of myself for doing this and now when ever I come across these kind of things I remember that" I have to raise my voice agains the wrong " and help other women who are suffering from the same . When I will grow up I will surely start and initiative just like this girls buzz and work as a feminist . To the person reading this till now : if something like this happens with you don't tremble and panic JUST STAND UP FOR URSELF . JUST KNOW THAT WE ARE WOMEN AND WE ALSO HAVE RIGHTS TO LIVE OUR LIFE ACCORDING TO US  ,NO ONE CAN OPRESS A WOMEN UNTILL SHE KNOWS THAT BEING A WOWEN DOSENT MEAN ANY MALE CAN OPRESS YOU IN ANY WAY AND IMPEDE U FROM PURSUING UR DREAMS .

EDUCATION IS THE KEY ,EDUCATE URSELF AND BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOU NOT ONLY FOR YOURSELF BUT also FOR THE WOMEN OF UR NATION .