Wear What Fits Your Vibe

One toxic obsession that is universal is judging women’s clothes. Of all the unasked pieces of advice we constantly receive from people around us, are opinions about our dressing sense!

Fashion statements and dressing styles are very subjective. If somebody prefers comfort over glamour let them just make that choice. It is not something strange or something they should learn to change.

Food, clothing, and shelter are termed basic human rights worldwide. Then why isn’t choosing one of these human rights so controversial? We live in an independent country and it’s high time we understand that our perceptions, and stereotypes need freedom from our minds as well.

I believe anyone would look like their most beautiful self if they are happy. As we say, the happiest girls are the prettiest girls. If being comfortable in her dress makes her happiest, she is going to look beautiful no matter what she is wearing. Relieve her from the weight of your opinions by imposing your judgment.

If a girl feels comfortable wearing a bold outfit, or a perfectly traditional outfit, or a mix and match outfit, let her just be. Her dressing is not your job to judge. Dressing sense, fashion, and style are all elements of a person’s individuality. With clothes, we represent and channelize our mood, our vibe, and our personality. Nobody absolutely nobody should get in your way of doing so. Wear whatever matches your vibe. Refuse to let anybody stop you from creating your own fashion statement.

It is also equally important to realize that ‘in style’ is not something to follow or stick to rigidly and blindly. Get yourself out of that vicious cycle of trends. Is it time for you to take a long, hard look at your wardrobe? Take everything out of your closet that doesn't make you happy when you look at it, that you know only fit when you were at incredibly low weight, or that fits but is unattractive. Don’t succumb to this pressure of maintaining size zero and wearing ‘in-style’ clothes. 

Making your body and soul happy should be your only concern in life for making any decisions. Be it your clothes, or anything that is YOU and YOURS!  Listen to only your heart and turn a deaf ear to anybody else that does or does not belong to your heart.